Children Deserve A Family

Mar 27 2013 @ 5:42pm

Yesterday, Scalia questioned whether gays adopting children is harmful to the children:


Ezra Klein pushes back, pointing out that “400,00 children are living in the United States without permanent families” and that more “than 100,000 of these children are, right now, eligible for adoption”:

On average, these children will be in foster care for three years before being adopted. Twenty percent will be in foster care for more than five years.

Foster parents are, in most cases, genuine heroes. But being in the foster-care system is not easy for children, or good for them. A world in which more of these children can go to loving, stable forever homes faster is a better world.

The idea that there is something so wrong with same-sex households that it would be preferable for these children to go two or four or six years without permanent parents — an idea, again, that has little to no evidence behind it, and that is in fact contradicted by most of the evidence — bespeaks a homophobia so deep that it is hard for me to believe it could persist long among people who actually know any children in the foster system, and who actually know many gay couples.