“There’s something about realizing that marriage is opt-in — which it is now, marriage is always opt-in, at any moment you can opt out — it’s almost like you have to earn your partner’s presence in your life. … You cannot take them for granted in a way that you could when it was one woman, one man, for life,” – Dan Savage, in conversation with yours truly a couple of nights ago at the New York Public Library.
Dan and I just also recorded a podcast together. It will be part of a series of conversations called “Andrew Asks Anything” that we’ll be releasing exclusively to subscribers this fall. Stay tuned.