The Real Frank Ocean Debuts

A reader writes:

I'm sure you're getting tons of emails about this, but I just wanted to talk about Frank Ocean again. Last night he had his television debut on Jimmy Fallon and performed his new song, "Bad Religion." The song is a beautiful reflective meditation from the back of a taxi, and the performance was incredible. The album launched at the same times on iTunes, a week ahead of its physical launch, and it already sits at #1 in more or less the entire English-speaking world.

This story would be unremarkable were it not for what he sang on Fallon's show: "I could never make him love me, never make him love me." What we just witnessed was the birth of a career of a man who unabashedly sings about men the way most R&B musicians sing about women. And yet, it hasn't seemed to affect his popularity; if anything, it's bolstered it. This is a big deal.

Not to mention, the album is brilliant.

Full lyrics after the jump:

“A Gay Rapper Who’s Better Than Everybody” Ctd

by Chris Bodenner A reader senses that society is ready for the emergence of the first prominent gay rapper: Maybe I missed it, but I haven’t seen a mention of the current #9 hit on the Top 40 chart – “Same Love” by rapper Macklemore. It was performed just this weekend on the MTV Video … Continue reading “A Gay Rapper Who’s Better Than Everybody” Ctd

From Out Of The Hip-Hop Closet …

by Gwynn Guilford … comes 50 Cent's late mother, whom he discusses with Perez Hilton: "My mom was a lesbian. Yeah, she liked women. My whole childhood was like that," Fiddy admitted. "It's two different things too – from a female perspective, when you see two females together, you think, oh, they're just girlfriends, they're close. But, … Continue reading From Out Of The Hip-Hop Closet …

The Weekly Wrap

Bain

Today on the Dish we had another busy day of Bain coverage. In this post, Andrew cornered the Romney campaign for being unable to quell two major concerns: why he made a six figure salary for three years while claiming to have no active involvement in Bain and why he told the SEC in 2001 that he remained the CEO. Here we brought more bloggers into the inquiry and asked pro-Romney Catholics if they were comfortable with a candidate who had invested in a company that disposed of dead fetuses. Here and here we clashed with WaPo fact-checker Glenn Kessler over his continued support for Romney's version of events. Here we did the same with Factcheck.org. Here we featured Dish readers with legal expertise and here we highlighted a reader with especially wise words. Late in the day, Andrew took stock of the situation in light of new damning evidence and then reacted to Romney's vehement but vacuous words against Obama. For its part, the Obama ad team made hay of the Bain story.

Zooming out, Obama's slight lead in the Gallup poll came down to an uptick in non-whites, and the president's general likeability endures, in spite of his approval ratings. Readers lent perspective on Romney's NAACP speech with a shudder-worthy roundup of white Democrats pandering to black audiences, Andrew argued that the most offensive thing about Romney's speech was the suggestion that 40 million Americans' access to insurance is "unnecessary," and the rumored Condi-as-veep idea would seriously compromise Romney's pro-life position. Joel Alicia explored Roberts' conservative bona fides, while others wondered whether the liberal love affair with Anthony Kennedy would finally die. And George H W Bush asked "who the hell is Gover Norquist, anyway?"

Readers added nuance to yesterday's discussion about the Mormon enthusiasm for profit and pushed back on Marriott's motivations for abandoning hotel porn. In economic coverage, we saw evidence that outsourcing doesn't kill American jobs, showed how the Olympics brings a mixed bag of economic benefits to host countries, and examined the sale of Digg that went for a fraction of its former worth. Tiny apartments in NYC might see a resurgence soon and it's increasingly illegal to rent out your home. 

In assorted coverage, a California ballot measure to ban capital punishment framed it in budgetary terms, a NYC food truck offered a conspicuous consumption-tastic burger, and Margaret Talbot found that sex-segregated classrooms are hard to justify. Andrew, in a video for Big Think, proclaimed that Abraham Lincoln was one of the two greatest gay Americans (the other: Walt Whitman). If the disenfranchisement of felons, which disproportionately hurts African-Americans, ended, Florida would no longer be a swing state. This post explained how liquids tossed at airport security are disposed of, a little perspective on shark attacks here, and 3,000-year-old peat-bog mummies left scientists scratching their heads. We commemorated mad poet John Clare on his birthday. MHB here and VFYW here. Try not to hold your nose at this FOTD.

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“To Be Black And Gay In Alabama”

A reader writes:

I commend you so much for doing that story on Anderson Cooper. I'm a 20 year old black gay male living in Alabama right now and I am so close to giving up on life. I have no real friends, no one I can trust. I did manage to win prom king, everyone in the school knew I was gay and to accomplish that much respect in 2009 was just an amazing feeling I will never forget… But sadly people in my family always had it out for me. My mom used to say "I will love you no matter what" but actions speak louder then words.

I'm pretty sure she knows about me, but I still haven't till this day been comfortable to come out and say it to her. Once I had a friend that thought it was her place to tell my mom about my sexuality and I was so hurt. We were best friends and after that it was over. I felt so betrayed because that was my place if anything. Yet my mother never brought it up.

I have had suicide attempts in the past.

The Daily Wrap

Today on the Dish, we recorded the reaction of the blogosphere to Obama's decision to let parts of the Bush tax cuts expire. Andrew homed in on the difference between Mitt and George Romney when it comes their Mormonism and transparency and this post further explored the heavy-handed role of LDS leaders.  As Andrew considered … Continue reading The Daily Wrap

The Daily Wrap

Today on the Dish, Andrew highlighted how the negative ads against Romney are working and explained how the Obama-Romney tactical game relates to voter frustrations. Meanwhile, a grassroots perspective from a Romney supporter suggests that Andrew isn’t the only one recognizing Mitt's inability to connect with voters. And Posner explained how the Republicans are holding … Continue reading The Daily Wrap

The Weekly Wrap

Romney-Schrodingers-candidate

Today on the Dish, Andrew landed more blows on the GOP – its failure on healthcare, Romney’s fuzzy fiscal math, and his cynical positioning. He’s not the only one: the attrition of "honest conservatives" from the "goofy" party continues.

There was little good news in the June jobs report, though disagreement abounds on whether and how the Fed should react. Meanwhile, Kaiser broke down the irony of Republican rebuffing the ACA's Medicaid expansion, while Barro wondered how healthcare consumption can be equalized, given rising costs and income inequality. Douthat and Reihan scuffled with Chait and Barro over the existence of a GOP healthcare plan. An instructive thought experiment reminds us that John Roberts' mind is pretty much a black box. And, on the ad war front, Rove is dropping $25 million in nine states to go after Obama on the economy.

The Libor manipulation scandal is way scarier than the lack of coverage suggests. A Rachel Maddow profile reminded Andrew of the self-critical knack of some modern gayfolk. And US weightlifter Sarah Robles' lack of sponsorship illustrated how narrow-minded advertisers are when it comes to marketing female athletes. And many readers disagreed with Veronique (who today discussed the US election and the euro crisis) on her characterization of Krugman – which Andrew defended, in a way.

Google Glass is the latest in dazzling Google technology that nobody wants. Bespectacled Rick Santorum rocked the plaid in a collection of US politicians in high school, in which Michael Bloomberg is revealed to be the president of his school's slide rule club. And Andy Griffith was shown to have backed Kerry.

Also today, Andrew parried yet another attack on his circumcision argument, and a 12-year-old met up with his 32-year-old self. A Brazilian soccer team came up with a novel was to promote blood donation. Hipsters grappled with the Higgs Bosun, perhaps unaware that another post was pondering their extinction. Readers sounded off with views from (in and outside of) their closets and tips on tomato selection. A new medical marijuana strain allows you to get baked without getting stoned.  A showdown on a Jordan cables news station revived the old firearm or shoe debate. And a Venn diagram exposed Romney's Gotham overlap. Aspen pickup lines made Tom Friedman book titles sound raunchy, Friday poem here, VFYW here, and MHB here

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