“Brain studies reinforce what recovering alcoholics and their counselors have been saying for years: Long-term alcohol and other drug use changes the chemistry of the brain. These anomalies in brain patterns are associated with a rigidity in thinking; both harm reduction and Alcoholics Anonymous treatment approaches focus on helping people in recovery work on their destructive thought processes. ‘Dry drunk’ is a slang term used to describe the recovering alcoholic who is no longer drinking, but whose thinking is clouded. Such an individual is said to be dry but not truly sober; such an individual tends to go to extremes. It was when I started noticing the extreme language that colored President Bush’s speeches that I began to wonder. First there were the terms — “crusade,’ ‘infinite justice’ — that were later withdrawn. Next came ‘evildoers,’ ‘axis of evil,’ ‘regime change” — terms that have almost become cliches. Something about the polarized thinking and the obsessive repetition reminded me of many of the recovering alcoholics and addicts I had treated.” – Katherine van Wormer, San Francisco Chronicle.
INSTA-COMMENT!: I sent the quote above out on the Inside Dish this week (to get a weekly newsletter from the site with advance access to articles and extra goodies, click here). Here’s one of the best emails I got in response, from someone who actually is an addict:
I’m a newly-recovering methamphetamine addict. I am part of the growing wave of meth/sex dual addicts in the gay community, but working hard on living healthy. Being HIV positive demands it, really, and with a viral load now at 75 I have a shot at living a long time. As you can well imagine this issue is extremely important to me. I have just under 60 days of good sobriety after 3 years of increasing use, so I can’t claim to be an expert on recovery issues … yet. But I’ll tell you this: the only rigidity in my thinking is related to the tunnel vision of extreme attachment to my drugs of choice. In all other areas, my intelligence, perceptions, and feelings are quite fine (now), thank you. To use the language of recovery to make a political attack is not just Begala-esque, it is putrid and insulting. Oh wait, is there any difference?
Bush, unlike our previous addict, I mean, president, all but admitted his addiction in this year’s State of the Union address. Thus his compassion. Seriously, when he made his comment about how addiction reduces one’s life focus into a single destructive compulsion – as an active addict at the time, I almost burst into tears.
For Bush, outright admission would not have been proper, as it would have given a bit too much encouragement to those of us still wallowing in the self-pity of our addictions. Bush’s eloquent allusion to his past drug use was a far cry from Cleopatra “Queen of Denial” Clinton’s “I lit it, put my mouth on it, sucked it, but I’m sure no THC made it into my bloodstream” denial.
I don’t know about you, but in my experience, an addict working on his problem is far more honest and trustworthy than someone who may or may not have been an addict, depending on what the definition of addict is, but is in denial about that or something, or in Clinton’s case, everything else.
Amen. I also found that section of Bush’s State of the Union profoundly moving. And his record on AIDS, in comparison to Clinton’s talk-talk, is equally impressive. Yes, I know I have my issues with his record in other areas and some of his allies, but I trust him in ways I never trusted his predecessor – even on issues where Clinton seems on the surface to be superior.