A Guide To Mid-Century Dating

Maria Popova digs up a 1949 questionnaire from Esquire that provides not-so-timeless advice for dating and romance. A sampling of the tips offered to ladies:

Do you knit when you are having a cozy, fireside evening with a man?

For some reason, men hate to see a woman doing anything with her hands when talking to her. Undivided attention is best.

Do you either play bridge or dance really well?

If not, take steps to correct this at once. You’re better off if you do both well, but one talent is mandatory.

For the men:

Would you dine a girl expensively and not buy her flowers, or economize on the place and bring her at least a gardenia?

Most women would prefer having flowers and less to eat.