I hope you remember Irshad Manji’s wonderful little book, “The Trouble With Islam.” At great personal risk, this Canadian woman has taken on Islamist intolerance. And when she reports progress and hope, it gladdens the heart. Here’s an email I received from her today:
Some of you haven’t heard from me in a while. Please forgive the silence. I’m barely keeping up now that I don’t have an assistant. But this isn’t a personal update — not exactly. It’s a note of hope. At a time when disasters from the natural to the man-made are on our minds, good news seems sparse. Key word: “seems”.
In the last couple of weeks, I’ve tried to catch up on emails received through my site (www.muslim-refusenik.com). I’m happy to report that I’m hearing far more support than hostility from Muslims around the world. Even disagreement — of which there is plenty — tends to be more introspective than it was a year ago.
Now that the Arabic language edition of The Trouble with Islam is posted on my site, my inbox is teeming with messages of gratitude from Muslims in the Middle East (and, I might add, Europe). I’m hearing increasingly from Muslims in Turkey, Russia, Bangladesh, India, Indonesia, Malaysia and South Africa.
This week, the Urdu edition is being published in Pakistan. Some self-described “progressive” Muslims have already warned me and my translator that we’re on their “killing list.” They’re also contacting Pakistan’s clergy and government officials to stop the book’s distribution. But they can’t stop me from posting the Urdu version on my site.
Meanwhile, I take strength from the many Muslims who have written to ask where they can acquire the Urdu edition. As one young Pakistani put it, “My dad wants a copy sooo bad he’s read to pee in his pants!!” (Insert your own punch line here.)
Finally, in the spirit of hope, let me share two particular emails with you. One comes from the UK; the other from France. Both are written by Muslim women — who, in my own travels, have shown themselves to be the most passionate champions of reviving ijtihad, Islam’s lost tradition of independent thinking.
May 2005 be a year in which we not only respond to human crises, but prevent a few through open debate and honest discussion.
Salaam,
Irshad
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“Hi Irshad,
I’ve lived in England throughout my 30 years of life. During that time, I have vigorously defended my faith and my culture against the Paki-bashers that pervade English society. I have always been a devout Muslim woman, respectful to my parents and my loving husband. It was my husband who first told me about you – a traitor amongst our midst. A woman who would give succour to our enemies and fan the flames of Islamophobia.
I was lent your book about a month ago – so I could find out what we devout Muslims were up against. Know they enemy – as Sun Tzu would say. The title made me furious and almost gag and the picture of you nauseated me; a typical wanna-be-white, MTV presenter bimbo with right-on trendy liberal credentials and a terrible haircut that only a lesbian could wear.
Then I sat down to read your book. And I read. I then went to your website to find out more about you. And I read.
The ideas that you present have left me stunned. The beauty of the vision of Islam that you present before me leaves me in tears. Your words are witty and self-deprecating, but they can’t hide the huge magnitude of what you put before us. For me the past month has been a a continuous wave of epiphany and awakening.
I’m embarrassed and humbled by how prejudiced I was before I actually got a chance to read your book. I now look at your picture and marvel that someone so young and beautiful can be so wise and articulate.
I still find it difficult not to instinctively justify and defend the (often barbaric) behaviour and beliefs of Muslims against the white infidels or try to deflect the blame from Islam as it is practiced today by a few misguided souls. But I see now that by doing so, I only harm our faith – and the possibility that it might sit in harmony with the world’s other great religions.
But more importantly, as my son and daughter grow up and ask me about life, the universe, and everything – I’ll encourage them to read not only the Koran, but every other book they can get their hands on. To research and to learn for themselves and to challenge all the ideas that are put before before them. Most of all to think.
From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU!!” – N
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Assalam alaikum, Ms. Manji:
I’m reading your wonderful and brave book for the third time now. I’m so happy to have in print something that deals with the same issues I’ve been struggling with and questioning ever since I converted to Islam. I tend to freeze up and turn incoherent when actually discussing them out loud; I find your book helps me express myself.
One of the issues that often comes up for me is the question of hijab. I live in France, and this is a charged topic. One side thinks it’s a symbol of oppression; the other side thinks that words like “symbol of oppression” signal racism and intolerance on the speaker’s part. So I get people at once telling me that I live in a free society and don’t have to wear ‘that thing’ on my head, while others tell me that people who use terms like ‘that thing’ are intolerant and hateful and will go to Hell. (umm…)
My standpoint is that I support a woman’s freedom to expose as much of herself as she likes (bravo for the law in Canada, where women can go topless!) In return, I ask that my freedom be respected to conceal as much as I would like. I wear hijab clothing because this way, no one can tell if I have belly-fat or whether my hair looks salon-perfect. (I like yours by the way! Very spunky!) And because no one knows, no one can care… It’s also nice that no one can claim I dress this way because I’m forced to by an older male relative: I’m of Anglo-Polish background, pale and freckled, and I live with my Catholic boyfriend who is supportive and CERTAINLY not demanding about what I wear!
Being a Muslim has been incredibly hard. Converts are not respected, especially white ones who believe in both freedom of religion and if desired freedom FROM religion. And questioning the perfection of the Qur’an is just not done by believing Muslim women, of course. And what’s with the worship of Arabic? I speak French and English and have always been proud of that; do I need a third, now? Does God not understand if I speak with I’m comfortable in?
I remember that in one of your responses to a nasty letter describing how Islam is the fastest growing religion in the West, you said many people come seeking the much-vaunted simplicity of Islam and never find it. I certainly haven’t found it in the community itself (no: in the MAJORITY of the community here. I have many fantastic brothers and sisters who love and support me). But despite the frustrations, I have never regretted my choice.
I’m so thrilled that you have been brave enough to write The Trouble with Islam [en francais: Musulmane mais Libre]. I was told that reading your book would weaken my faith and that I should avoid it at all costs. I find, rather, that it has strengthened my faith. It’s by using our God-given intellects and creativities that we get closer to the Divine. Thank you so much for your efforts – I hope to see more books soon!” – S