A reader writes:
My Beloved, Samantha, just asked me to update my Facebook page to confirm that I’m engaged to her. My mother just called for the third time this morning and choked out through her tears, "I promise this is the last time I’ll call this morning, but I understand that the proper
protocol is that the mother of the bride pays for the wedding." I’ve left a message for our minister to see if he is available in 30 days to officiate our wedding.
This marriage will allow us to be recognized within the state as we are recognized in our neighborhood, in our church, and with our friends: as a family with all the rights, protections, and responsibilities that come with that commitment. This marriage would allow us to expect acceptance rather than anticipate discrimination of our family. Marriage would protect our children. Marriage would attach recognition to what we know is true, that the love that brought us together as a couple and binds us a family matters just as all families matter. Families comprise neighborhoods, churches, friends, and the state. Families are why we have civil marriage in California and why our family deserves the same recognition.
I’m attaching a photo of our family. From left to right is Sophie (turned 8 last Friday), Samantha, Anneliese (4.5), and me. I figured since I’ve viewed your wedding photos, you should see a photo of my family. We are all looking forward to our marriage next month!
The Dish 