Broken Links

Apologies again. Typepad's new platform seems to be the culprit. It also contains no option for blockquoting, believe it or not, one of the most common features on all blogs. The feature existed in the last iteration (does any blogging platform not provide a blockquote option?) – but the geniuses at Typepad actually removed this basic feature, while adding countless new bugs and glitches, as part of an "upgrade". I'd say that the new Typepad has added around 20 minutes of extra work a day and doubled the likelihood of human error.

The Cannabis Closet: The Parents II

A reader writes:

After my college years, I gave up smoking pot for many reasons; I wanted to stay healthy during my pregnancies and subsequent breast feeding of 3 children, I had a husband in the medical MJ Purps profession who was paranoid about getting caught, I was teaching Sunday School, singing in the church choir, and most of our friends had given it up. We drank a whole lot of wine in those days.

Well. Now all the kids are off at college, I have a new husband who is a good deal more fun than the last, and my circle of friends has gotten younger and more adventurous. We keep a small box of the finest bud hidden behind the sweaters in the closet and have a smoke every now and then in the evenings. Life is even more hilarious, and if we don’t overdo it, it ramps up our sex life in interesting ways. When the kids come home for spring break or Christmas, after we have said goodnight and retired for the evening, my husband and I hang our heads outside the bathroom window, take a toke, use mouthwash, spray Citrus Magic, and hope the kids don’t notice.

Another writes:

My neighbor has occasional PEP (Parents Enjoying Pot) parties at her half-million dollar suburban home in a large Midwestern city. Always mid-morning, so these mothers have time to clear their heads in time to go grocery shopping and pick up their kids at school by 3:00pm. It’s funny to see the long line of shiny SUVs parked in front of her house.

Me? I don’t partake in those because I work during the day, and I don’t enjoy the group vibe anyway. But I do enjoy smoking on a Friday or Saturday night — after the kids are in bed — as a way to unwind after a long week at my white-collar job. It’s not unusual for me to smoke the night before a 20-mile run or 75-mile bike ride that starts at 6:00 am the next day. As an age-group endurance athlete, I’ve competed in dozens of marathons and long-course triathlons. For me, the biggest danger with the pot is that it makes me thirsty for a Jack and Coke.

Another:

I am the technical officer for a small company and also a published fiction author, so it’s not like smoking has prevented me from accomplishing a great number of things. I first tried marijuana when I was 23 and smoked somewhat regularly until the past year when I turned 35. Not because I think it’s wrong, but because I have a 1 year old child with another on the way. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with parents having a joint, but only if there’s proper care for your children. I don’t want to be high if my child needs to be rushed to the hospital in the middle of the night. I can guarantee you when our children are old enough to spend a weekend with the grandparents, my wife and I will gladly light one up.

Another:

My husband and I are both successful, responsible citizens and parents to two teenagers. I have smoked pot occasionally since high school – always thinking on those occasions that I really should do it more often. In the last ten years I have rarely smoked because of my guilt/paranoia that my kids would find out – because, after all, I have to disparage the evil weed for fear of them associating with an illegal substance. Mind you I’m not fearful of them trying it – only of them getting caught – and having it ruin their plans for the future.

Now I use alcohol to relax/wind down. My husband, on the other hand, still enjoys a hit or two on a pretty regular basis. Boy I can’t tell you how much I reflect on the situation wherein my husband comes up from the garage relaxed, mellow and jovial and I am tired, sullen and maybe sloppy – not to mention the extra calories I’m taking in.

Another:

I’m a mid-20s “young professional,” working for the local political arm of a national non-profit organization. My group of friends and I are no strangers to marijuana. The dozen or so of us who spend time together regularly imbibe both alcohol and marijuana to varying degrees, and most of us have been toking up since high school. I’ve recently slowed down my marijuana intake, for various reasons. I just don’t like the high anymore – it can be overwhelming and turns me into an apathetic zombie.

But I am, quite frankly, petrified of the possible consequences. I have a 15-month-old son with a previous girlfriend. We now share custody and, while we get along pretty well (and have even toked up together in the past), I’m scared as hell of the possibility that, one day, for whatever reason, my occasional marijuana habit will catch up with me in a court of law and affect my custody/visitation of my wonderful son, whom I love more than I ever thought possible.

I’ve never used marijuana around or while in possession of my son, nor will I ever. I’m not into any harder drugs, nor are any of my friends, and I’ve never had such an urge. A big part of my intake reduction has been an increase in personal responsibility and productivity, and I’m proud of that and take it very seriously. But sometimes, especially after reading some other “Marijuana Closet” testimonies, I don’t feel comfortable around the stuff, even if I’m not partaking – and I’m around it a lot. A single random drug screening or police raid of a party could legally evaporate my relationship with my young son, even though I’m doing everything else right and nothing else wrong.

Another:

I have been a lifelong cannabis user, on an almost daily basis since I was in high school. I am now the managing partner of a very successful law firm in the Washington, D.C. area. I have been in a professional law practice for almost 27 years. I work 60+ hours a week, and all of that hard work has translated into high levels of annual income. I still get high after work, almost every day — but my habit does not compel me to get high before work (I can’t even imagine why anybody would do that).

My children had no idea that I was a pot-smoker when they started smoking themselves in high school — by their account, they were terrified that my wife and I would find out and ground them (or worse) if we knew they were using drugs like pot. Little did they know.

Cannabis, like all recreational substances, does not have the same effect on all people, and a lot of that depends on how it is used and the basic personalities of the users. One of the biggest elephants in the closet of United States is the reality that 50-100 Million Americans (or more) smoke pot illegally. Parents from coast to coast hide this from their children and their peers, for fear of what disclosure might lead to.

When my daughters were in their late teens, we came clean told them about our own use of cannabis with absolute honesty. We have since smoked together, and have shared experiences (such as visiting Holland) that involve or relate to cannabis usage. And as a result, I have a more honest relationship with my children than 99% or more of the people I know. It has led to better understanding between us than we have ever had as a family, and which gets better and better as each day passes.

Yet somehow, I suspect Family Circle, Good Housekeeping, and the evangelical right would be horrified if they heard this story, and would view me as somebody who should be punished for the behavior involved. Their heads would literally explode at the notion of a parent-smoking pot with a child (while at the same time feeling no remorse or ambiguity about the beer or champagne the family passed around on Junior’s 21st birthday). The hypocrisy is staggering.

We Are All Sodomists Now

Tyler Cowen goes there:

If you take the heterosexual couples who engage in the practice which is sometimes “associated” with male gay marriage, I predict those couples will favor legal gay marriage to an astonishingly high degree.  Their marriage is already “affiliated” with that practice, and so the notion of legally married gay men (and the practices which go along with that) does not constitute an extra and unwanted affiliation for their marriage ideal.

My related 2003 article is here.

Stressed

The Banks have passed Geithner's stress tests. Yves Smith doesn't buy it:

We said from the beginning the stress tests were a complete sham. Just look at the numbers. 200 examiners for 19 banks? When Citi nearly went under in the early 1990s, it took 160 examiners to go over its US commercial real estate portfolio (and even then then the bodies were deployed against dodgy deals in Texas and the Southwest). This is a garbage in, garbage out exercise. The banks used their own risk models to make the assessment, for instance, the very same risk models that caused this mess. And there was no examination of the underlying loan files.

In Defense Of The Iraq War

Maybe the debate will turn again:

Matt Stone and Trey Parker, the creators of South Park, were given a signed photo of Saddam Hussein by US marines after the former Iraqi leader was shown their movie in prison. During his captivity, US marines forced Saddam, who was executed in 2006, to repeatedly watch the movie South Park: Bigger, Longer And Uncut, which shows him as gay, as well as the boyfriend of Satan.

For the three Dish readers who are unaware of South Park’s Saddam, a little flavor (Saddam is consigned to live for ever in Heaven surrounded by Mormons) is after the jump:

Quote For The Day III

"Twenty-five, thirty years ago, the barometer of human rights in the United States were black people. That is no longer true. The barometer for judging the character of people in regard to human rights is now those who consider themselves gay, homosexual, or lesbian," – Bayard Rustin, close associate of Martin Luther King, Jr. and organizer of the 1963 March on Washington, 1986.

The Right’s Contempt For Gay Lives, Ctd

Did I Weddingflowers to remove and stigmatize key members of families and ensure that they will never have access to the same rights as their brothers and sisters, fathers and mothers.

Remember: civil marriage for gay couples is not some kind of liberal special right. It requires no concession from anyone else; it requires no individual recognition from anyone who disapproves; it coerces no one; it taxes no one; it spends nothing; it takes not an iota from the rights and dignity of heterosexual marriages, which gave birth to gay people and give many of us our sense of morality and duty and civility. If the right is concerned about religious freedom, please reach out to those of us who favor civil equality and free speech and help protect both. But no, this is not what they are interested in, preferring to construct ads in which actors pretend to be people allegedly persecuted by gays for being Christians. Really, this is pure animus at this point – a decision to define a political movement by the people it excludes and the families it despises.

The next generation sees this most clearly, although plenty of fair-minded older folk see the cruelty and obtuseness involved here. What we have seen on the right since their devastating and deserved loss last November is a worsening of their bitterness, a calcification of their ideas, a poisoning of their discourse.

May they enjoy the fruits of their anger; and may the rest of us be saved from its logical conclusion.

The Polarization Meme

I was scarfing a Five Guys burger yesterday late in the afternoon – good times – when I glanced over the op-ed page of the Washington Post. I read this piece by Michael Gerson, chuckled and scoffed a little and then went on my merry way to the gym. But it’s the kind of piece whose layers of flim-flam and chutzpah take time to impress themselves on the mind. 

Here’s the premise, a premise which, despite its rank untruth, will, if I know anything about how these people work, be repeated again and again and again. Drum roll:

Who has been the most polarizing new president of recent times? Richard Nixon? Ronald Reagan? George W. Bush? No, that honor belongs to President Barack Obama.

Now we know the poll they’re referring to. It’s Pew’s poll. Over to Nate Silver:

[M]easurements of the partisan split in support for the President, as Pew Research has done here (they found a record partisan split in Obama’s approval ratings, with 88 percent of Democrats but just 27 percent of Republicans approving of Obama’s performance) are not quite as straightforward as they might seem. This is because partisan identification is at least somewhat fluid. The Republicans, in particular, have lost quite a bit of support over the past several years; those persons who continue to identify as Republicans are a hardened — and very conservative — lot. Just 24 percent of voters identified as Republican when Pew conducted this survey in March, which is roughly as low as that total has ever gotten.

When you look at it this way, you discover what is really going on. Nate again:

Obama and Bush had roughly the same level of support among members of their own party (88 percent for Obama, 87 percent for Bush) and roughly the same level of support among unaffiliated voters (57 percent for Obama, 56 for Bush). Bush, however, had more support from the opposition party (36 percent of Democrats versus 27 percent of Republicans). And yet Obama, not Bush, had the higher overall approval rating, because Democrats are a significantly larger constituency than Republicans.

The key to judging whether a president is polarizing is how the middle, or Independents, are seeing him. The reason is simple. A president might be as open to engagement as possible, but if his opposition is determined to destroy and demonize him from Day One, he can’t do much about that. But independents give a better sense of whether the president is forcing the center to divide into two poles. So here’s Obama’s current independent support:

Compare that with the Democrats and Republicans. The polarization being touted by Rove and Wehner and Gerson and the rest of the Bush left-overs is almost entirely a function of Obama’s astonishing popularity among Dems, buoyancy among Independents (whose approval rating is very close to the national average), and extremely polarized and shrinking pool of Republicans. To interpret that as Obama’s fault, rather than a function of GOP extremism and disaffection, whipped up by Fox and Drudge and Pajamas and the rest of that machine, is, well, Rovian. But it is a reminder of what alone can keep the Bush-Rove GOP alive: the same old, ancient culture war debate that Obama offers us a chance to move past. They will do all they can to keep dividing this country until they see some signs of progress for their operation. That’s all they’ve got.

Hewitt Award Nominee

"Watching President Obama apologize last week for America's arrogance – before a French audience that owes its freedom to the sacrifices of Americans – helped convince me that he has a deep-seated antipathy toward American values and traditions… Is this what Sen. John Kerry meant when he once suggested that American policy must pass a "global test"? Or what Barack Obama meant when he said last week that we have failed to "appreciate Europe's leading role in the world"? Or when he spoke of "change we can believe in"? And just who are "we"?" – Rick Santorum.

The Gitmo Fourteen

Marc believes that the government can convict most high value detainees without evidence obtained from torture:

Reporters with better sources than I might want to see if they can figure out (a) the number of detainees the DOJ believes were tortured and b) of those who were tortured, those for whom the government has little other evidence. I suspect that there are very few HVTs who fit into both categories. Of course, if the government's not confident it can try these folks, what will become of them?  I'm not sure the Obama administration knows at this point.