The View From Your Window: In Memoriam

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A reader writes:

I know I'm a bit late on this, but I wanted to reach out to you regarding the View From Your Window contest from Islamabad, with the Margalla Hills in the background.  I've been a loyal Dish reader for some time now but didn't see this one when it was first posted. I haven't been able to read the blog as regularly these days.

I only saw the picture when you announced the winner and I recognized the location immediately, almost to the point of tears.  My father was aboard the plane that crashed in the Margalla Hills on July 28 this year. 

I've spent a lot of time up there since the crash, but it meant a lot for some reason – I can't explain why – to see those hills on my favorite blog.  I've moved back to California to be with my family since the crash and it has not been easy moving forward given the nature of the death, but my family and I are making progress.  My dad left Pakistan for California in 1971, spent the majority of his life in America and raised two kids.  Who would have thought his end would come in Pakistan.

I guess the point is that it's a great contest that can touch people in ways you never imagined. Keep up the great work.

The Polyamorist Who Killed Marriage Equality

There are hypocrites, and then there's this guy:

[I]n 2006, [Washington State Supreme Court justice Richard B. Sanders] signed an opinion denying marriage equality to gay couples—because they have “more sexual partners” and because other courts have found that monogamy is “the bedrock upon which our culture is built.” Meanwhile, he’s been divorced twice, and this election season it became clear he has multiple simultaneous girlfriends. He doesn’t see anything inconsistent in any of that.

I'm sure David Vitter, Rush Limbaugh and Newt Gingrich don't either.

Quote For The Day

“We are going for a ‘Hicky’ Blue Collar look. These characters are from West Virginia so think coal miner/trucker looks… Clothing Suggestions” included jeans, work boots, flannel shirt, denim shirt, “Dickie’s type jacket with t-shirt underneath,” down-filled vest, “John Deer [sic] hats (not brand new, preferably beat up),” “trucker hats (not brand new, preferably beat up),” – the casting call for the now infamous GOP ad that aired briefly in West Virginia.

Why not the more economical: someone who looks like he’s clinging to his guns and religion?

The Rise And Rise Of Heterosexual Anal Sex

Buttman was right. Saletan heralds it:

Here's the big story. In 1992, 16 percent of women aged 18-24 said they'd tried anal sex. Now 20 percent of women aged 18-19 say they've done it, and by ages 20-24, the number is 40 percent. In 1992, the highest percentage of women in any age group who admitted to anal sex was 33. In 2002, it was 35. Now it's 46.

The last time I looked at the anal sex data, I figured that most women who reported having done it meant they'd tried it just once. I was wrong. If you push these women beyond the "have you ever" question, the numbers stay surprisingly high, and they're getting higher. In 1992, the percentage of women in their 20s and 30s who said they'd had anal sex in the past year was around 10 percent. Now that number has doubled to more than 20 percent, and one-third of these women say they've done it in the last month. Among all women surveyed, the number who reported anal sex in their most recent sexual encounter was 3 percent to 4 percent.

That's a lot of butt sex. And remember, this is what women are reporting. If anything, they're probably understating the truth.

So maybe Rick Santorum has a chance.

Vanity Fair And Hitch’s Tumor

If one wondered whether Conde Nast and Graydon Carter had any limits to what they might turn into "buzz", wonder no longer:

We thought you’d be interested in reading Christopher Hitchens’s latest column, “Tumortown,” which appears in the new issue of Vanity Fair. Hitchens writes about the extraordinary amount of advice he’s received since being diagnosed with cancer—everything from macrobiotic diets to recommendations that he open his chakras. One correspondent from a leading university even suggests cryogenic freezing and when Hitchens fails to respond sends a follow-up suggesting that he freeze “at least” his brain “so that its cortex could be appreciated by posterity.”

The column, of course, is pure Hitch. I.e. wonderful.

The Cannabis Closet: A Child Psychiatrist’s Fears

A reader writes:

I think pot should be legalized. I am for Prop 19. I just think that the push to make this happen draws people into minimizing the risks associated with smoking marijuana – particularly for adolescents.

The downside to Prop 19 is that it is going to create and increase some public health problems, particularly among teenagers and among the broader mentally ill population. I get that the measure would keep weed illegal for those under 21 and impose heavy penalties on anyone who facilitated kids getting weed. But let's not kid ourselves; more kids will have more access to weed, and this is a problem for which we need to prepare. You will forgive me, I hope, for being a bit skeptical about seeing a concomitant increase in funding for substance use treatment programs or mental health in general.

As someone who is finishing my training as a child and adolescent psychiatrist and as someone who used to smoke a fair bit in college and medical school, I really do see both sides of this.

On the one hand, I have kids tell me that MJ can truly salve their anxiety and even, occasionally, treat their ADHD. Some of them can even use it appropriately for this or just straight social purposes. It sure as hell helped me relax and connect with people in ways that were otherwise hard to do when I was a teenager.

But then weed didn't cure my anxiety. Therapy did (yes, I get that this doesn't work for everyone). Still, I have yet to see a kid show up stoned saying, "Let's do some therapy and figure this shit out." In my work I see kids whose depression or anxiety keeps getting worse as they smoke more and more. I see kids who have had their first psychotic break while smoking marijuana and are never quite the same afterwards. Onset of psychosis or other major mental illness left aside, I most often see kids who are determined to use weed (and alchohol, and a bunch of other stuff) to avoid whatever rage or sadness or both that they are sitting on.

I've attached a few papers. You can no doubt find contrary studies with a Google Scholar search. The weight of the evidence though, is that cannabis use – particularly frequent use at vulnerable periods like adolescence (which, neuro-developmentally speaking, often runs well past 21) – is pretty consistently associated with worse outcomes over time. It isn't necessarily the cause, and the rates aren't dramatic, but they are real. When we increase weed's availability then we increase the frequency of these outcomes, and that means that there is a social and a human cost. As I said above, I agree that in the end these specific costs are worth what we save in other areas. I do think it behooves us, however, to think about how to tend to these issues.