A reader writes:
This "daughter test" sounds like the exact definition of a nanny state, and after reading both sides, I think it can be boiled down to "I'm not sure I can educate my daughter to behave responsibly, so I want everyone else to keep an eye on her as well". Now, I understand that they are not so worried about their own real daughters as about the daughters of less-aware parents (or at least I hope that is indeed their concern), but it still feels like forcing behaviors on others to act "for their own good" – always a perilous edge to walk on.
It can also be easily shift to be extremely retrograde and racist ("I don't want my daughter to marry no nigger" being the most obvious reference, as much as it pains me to even write that, or, in our more modern sense, "I ain't having my daughter marry a dyke"). Both of these examples, plus I'm sure a hundred others one could think of, show that this method of determining laws is not just suspect, but utterly broken. Far better to save the money to pass laws only against activities that damage others, not oneself, and spend the extra money attempting to educate everyone's sons and daughters in making the right choices. Sure, some will ignore or willfully disregard any advice, but at some point our definition of liberty must accommodate for self-destructive tendencies, or otherwise the idea that we have a right – as opposed to an obligation – to life ceases to have any meaning.
Another writes:
I may not have a daughter, but if I did, let me tell you what I'd want for her. I'd want her to live in a society that treated her like an adult, when she became one. I want I society that respects her personal decisions, her body, and her property. I don't want her to become a drug addict or a sex worker. But if she became a drug addict, I would want her to be treated by doctors, not police officers. If she became a sex worker, I'd want her to able to organize for the decent wages and better working conditions, without fear of legal repercussion.
I want my daughter to be able to take society's respect for her person and property and internalize it. I want my daughter to reject substance abuse, not out of fear of law enforcement, but because she cares about her body enough not to risk harming it. I want her to reject sex work, not because of the criminal world it associates with, but because she views sex as something important, do be done with someone you love. I want my daughter to be a good person, and that can only happen in a free society.