A reader writes:
I'd have to agree with Elizabeth Samet about the awkwardness of thanking servicememebers for their service. Unless you know the service member personally, it can devolve into a selfish spectacle for the benefit of the civilian and render the person in the uniform into a caricature.
Having said that, I became a civilian employee of the Navy two years ago and work for a humble retired veteran. Around last Veteran's Day after some prompting, he shared some stories with me, and I thanked him for his service. He choked up and attempt to hold back some tears. Apparently in over 20 years of service, no one had even thanked him before, including his wife or three daughters.
So, I say, get to know a service member or veteran. Then, after they share their experiences, thank them for their service.
The Dish 