A reader writes:
Um, I suspect ass play on straight guys is not high on the list of things that turn women on. I can't imagine, when single and dating, asking a woman to get all up in there – and certainly none offered. After 13 years of marriage I could probably broach the subject easily enough with my wife, but knowing her as well as I do, she would have no intrinsic interest in going there – only by my request and only for my pleasure. In fact, I think the whole thing would be a turn off for her even if I was totally into it. Ass play has never happened in my sex life not because I've got some thang against it, but because I think it would be a MAJOR turn off to most women, and I think going out on a limb could make the whole relationship go south real quick.
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