Writing The Other Sex

In an interview, the novelist Ben Schrank describes why he’s drawn to female characters:

 I don’t pretend or claim to know or understand women. But writing about men doesn’t interest me as much… The darkness and cruelty in men’s souls is not something I want to dig into. I watch guys on the subway all the time and I’m just not that curious about what they’re up to. I have a general sense and that’s plenty. That stuff doesn’t need to be fleshed out. We still live too much with the damage men do. But the darkness and cruelty in women’s souls? Women are not so easy to read. They wear masked expressions on the subway that are endlessly inscrutable. For me, women are far more provocative.

The Religious Case Against Drones

The Rev. Dr. Paul F.M. Zahl makes it:

Our use of drones are out of “proportion” because it uses the most advanced technology in the world to assassinate people who can basically only throw the equivalent of sticks and stones back at you. Moreover, it gives these people no chance to surrender. It is like capital punishment without an arrest, a charge, a trial, or a right of appeal.

Our use of drones is not humane, because it totally objectifies the enemy by making them into a picture on a screen. There is not the faintest possibility, in the conduct of drone warfare by means of remote control, that you can regard the enemy as a fellow human citizen of the planet.

Addicted To Footnotes

Helen Rittlemeyer explores the similarities between David Foster Wallace and Samuel Coleridge, which range from youthful fame to struggles with addiction. One revealing parallel? Their fascination with footnotes:

Contemporaries were skeptical of Coleridge’s protestations, just as many people today are skeptical Wallace’s, but anyone who criticizes them should first think why it makes sense that a man who overuses footnotes would also become dependent on drugs and alcohol. Coleridge and Wallace were both acknowledged as having immense native brainpower—a friend of DFW’s described him as receiving more frames-per-second than most people—and both of them were great readers with great memories. Coleridge was nearly a child prodigy, reputed to be able to recite long passages from books he’d read only once.

These men could not have a thought without twelve sidebars, citations, and quibbles popping up from their mental recesses. The result: footnotes and digressions. The other result: an overwhelming desire, when the stimulation became too strong, to power down the machine for a while. “He once said to me that he wanted to write to shut up the voices in his head,” Wallace’s best friend told a reporter. “He said when you’re writing well, you establish a voice in your head, and it shuts up the other voices.” And alcohol shuts up all the voices.

A Poem For Sunday

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“Pied Beauty” by Gerard Manley Hopkins (1844-1889):

GLORY be to God for dappled things—
For skies of couple-colour as a brinded cow;
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim;
Fresh-firecoal chestnut-falls; finches’ wings;
Landscape plotted and pieced—fold, fallow, and plough;
And áll trádes, their gear and tackle and trim.

All things counter, original, spare, strange;
Whatever is fickle, freckled (who knows how?)
With swift, slow; sweet, sour; adazzle, dim;
He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change:
Praise him.

(“The Incredulity of Saint Thomas” by Caravaggio, via Wikimedia Commons)

A Different Conclusion To The Same Book

Danny Nowell recalls the first time he read Walker Percy’s The Moviegoer, describing its last thirty pages as “one of those really out of body reading experiences”:

At the time, I felt as if Walker Percy were reading my diary to me. I was eighteen and prone to seeing the world as tailored to me personally, but even still the novel was a perfect fit. The muted raciness and frustrated lust of it (it is as much about sex as any novel whose most graphic phrase is the supremely unsexy “flesh poor flesh failed us” can be) feels like a beacon to readers at the age where sex still feels like a secret. I recall feeling as if the book were the most perfect and grandest social commentary I’d ever read. I tested the word “prescient” out on my father after I’d finished it.

Five years later he turned to the book again – only to be confounded:

Family, obligation, love and its overlap with lust now populate the pages where once I read something like a neatly trimmed indictment of late capitalism. In the five years since I last read it—the time elapsed between repetitions—five years’ worth of life has accumulated. Reading my chosen terms of “family” and “obligation” as thematic signposts is as obvious a reflection of my present life as “asses” was for my eighteen-year-old self.

A Quote For Easter Sunday

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“It seems to me that the intent of the gospel writers is not to make the resurrection seem somehow plausible or credible – this could hardly be done without diminishing its impressiveness as miracle – but instead to heighten its singularity, when, as event, it would seem by no means unexampled. I believe it is usual to say that that the resurrection established who Jesus was and what his presence meant. Perhaps it is truer to say that opposite, that who Jesus was established what his resurrection meant, that he seized upon a narrative familiar or even pervasive and wholly transformed it.

When, in the Gospel of John, weeping Mary Magdalene stoops to look into the tomb and sees angels, they ask her, ‘Woman, why weepest thou?’ The text creates the dreamy impression that the two angels speak together. Then she turns and sees a man standing behind her, Jesus, whom she mistakes for a gardener. He speaks the same words as the angels did, ‘Woman, why weepest thou?’ and he asks, ‘Whom seekest thou?’ Does he see and hear angels, too? Or does he know her thoughts? Or was it his voice she heard in the first place? Mary herself would not have known. Jesus seems to be teasing her toward delight and recognition, ready to enjoy her surprise, in something like the ordinary manner of a friend. The narrative asserts that he is a figure of unutterable holiness, only pausing to speak to Mary before he ascends into heaven, yet it is his very ordinariness that disguises him from her. Splendor is very well for youths and angels, but when Jesus takes up again for a little while the life he had wept to leave, it is the life of a plain man,” – Marilynne Robinson, “Psalm Eight,” from The Death of Adam: Essays on Modern Thought.

(“The Resurrection of Christ,” 1463, by Piero della Francesca, via Wikimedia Commons)

A Grown-Up God

The New Statesman queried thinkers about what atheists can learn from believers. Karen Armstrong’s take is worth your time:

Most of us are introduced to God at about the same time as we hear about Santa Claus, but over the years our views of Santa mature and change, while our notion of God often gets stuck at an infantile level.

As a result, “God” becomes incredible. Despite our scientific and technological brilliance, our religious thinking in the west is often remarkably undeveloped, even primitive, and would make Maimonides and Aquinas turn in their graves. They both insisted that God was not another being and that you could not even say that He (ridiculous pronoun!) existed, because our experience of existence is too limited. God, said Aquinas, is Being itself (esse se ipsum).

The biblical God is a “starter kit”; if we have the inclination and ability, we are meant to move on. Throughout history, however, many people have been content with a personalized deity, yet not because they “believed” in it but because they learned to behave – ritually and ethically – in a way that made it a reality. Religion is a form of practical knowledge, like driving or dancing. You cannot learn to drive by reading the car manual or the Highway Code; you have to get into the vehicle and learn to manipulate the brakes. The rules of a board game sound obscure and dull until you start to play, and then everything falls into place. There are some things that can be learned only by constant, dedicated practice.

Face Of The Day

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David Rosenberg admires the work of Gillian Laub. From a series documenting her own family:

Although she’s covered hard-hitting stories of life in the Middle East and segregated high-school proms in the South, Laub’s images are often reminiscent of family portraits, with their intimate and deeply personal style. …

“I am very interested in tradition and ritual, so naturally every family holiday and ritual I will be photographing,” Laub wrote. Recently Laub became a mother for the first time and said the experience feels as if everything has come full circle. “I have spent so many years photographing other people’s children, so to now photograph my daughter with my mother and grandmother is pretty amazing.”

(Grandma Feels My Belly, Mamaroneck, N.Y., 2012 by Gillian Laub, courtesy of Bonni Benrubi Gallery)

Reading Like A Child

Alice Bolin fondly remembers the summer she stumbled upon Rudolf Flesch’s The Book of Unusual Quotations and its eclectic passages about religion:

I read attempts to expand the bounds in which God can be encountered: “We can never see Christianity from the catechism,” Ralph Waldo Emerson says, “from the pastures, from a boat in the pond, from amidst the songs of the wood-birds we possibly may.” And attempts to understand how spirituality might work in the absence of God: according to Søren Kierkegaard, “Prayer does not change God, but changes him who prays.” There were also cryptic sayings that mostly served to misdirect, like H. L. Mencken’s cheery epigram, “Every man is his own hell.” At this point in my life, I had never heard of any of these people.

How she now thinks about this random approach to reading:

It is, of course, a childish approach to meaning. As I grew older, I started to understand the importance of insights accumulated and laid over one another, rather than isolated. But I think the teen-age quote fetish is ultimately a good thing. It is evidence of the way a mind is built: randomly, piece by piece, working slowly through the dark with the few truths one finds or has been given. Children are experts on negative capability—in their comfort with what they don’t know, with not seeing the full picture, with moving without knowing what they are moving toward.

Proust’s Young Love

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The just released translation of Marcel Proust’s collected poetry includes his first known attempt at verse, “Pederasty,” written when he was 17. Harold Augenbraum, the volume’s editor, notes that it reveals him to be “struggling with his homosexual urges”:

Proust’s sexuality was a matter of public discussion even during his lifetime, but this poem and letters between Proust and Jacques Bizet (the son of Georges Bizet, the composer of Carmen) and Daniel Halévy written at the same time certainly make his interest in homosexuality abundantly clear. In a letter to Bizet, probably written in the spring of 1888, he responds to Bizet’s letter (now lost) that seems to say that Bizet had refused Proust’s advances, Proust saying that he is “not fatuous enough to believe that my body is so precious a treasure that to renounce it required great strength of character… Still, I always find it sad not to pluck the delicious flower that we shall soon be unable to pluck. For then it would be fruit… and forbidden.”

Recent Dish on Proust here.

(Proust, seated, with two companions in 1894, via Wikimedia Commons. The photo is said to have scandalized Proust’s mother.)