“When I first transitioned, I proudly identified as a “tranny” until people within the trans community told me the word was offensive to them. I complied but quickly realized that while striving to be accepted by the hetero-dominated world, the upper echelons of the trans community were trying to sweep the fringe under the rug by censoring the language with which they identify. In addition to banishing “tranny,” “sissy,” “sex change,” and “she-male” as slander, they insisted that the users of these words were the oppressors, making themselves the victims — a well-worn tool of manipulation and control.
As an artist, I love language, and I cherish free speech. RuPaul has been the number-one defender of these, and at the same time he continues to support every shade of queerness within our community, no matter the class. Drag is punk and should never be subjected to politically correct ideals. The moment it stops provoking is the moment it fails as an art form. …
Perhaps we might be better off acknowledging that controlling the people around us only gives us the illusion of control, a fleeting distraction from the core of our empowerment: the realization that we are only victims if we allow ourselves to be. Yes, we all have wounds, but let’s stop projecting them onto our allies,” – Our Lady J, singer/songwriter.
The Dish 