The word has been going gangbusters on Twitter lately:
What’s interesting is to click on NoHomophobes.com to read the actual contemporaneous tweets that contain the phrases “so gay”, “dyke”, “NoHomo”, and “faggot.” I have to say that “so gay” does seem, from reading the tweets, to be close to meaningless in terms of active, pre-meditated homophobia. Yes, of course it is a negative term and is rooted in the premise that being homosexual is lame. But it has become so generic I’m not really outraged by it. In fact, I’m not that outraged at any of this. Twitter is full of expletives and hate-words. I wonder if the n-word and the word “bitch”, for example, are much more common.
“Faggot” is also somewhat ubiquitous, ranging from the classic hate term against gay men to a general term of abuse for straight women and straight men. But some of that abuse in context is jokey. So this post – which will be tweeted – will register as hate-speech, just as a joke between two friends in which “faggot” has been drained of any explicit homosexual meaning. But “NoHomo” is almost entirely an ugly, nasty prejudice.
I may not be personally outraged, but I’m in a very privileged position (only gay-bashed once in my life), and the general the trend is disturbing, especially when we have seen a spate of anti-gay street violence from the Castro to the West Village, a few blocks from where I now live.
It gets more disturbing still when you also have the spectacle of a Republican candidate for Lieutenant Governor in Virginia like EW Jackson. The state’s GOP has effectively affirmed the legitimacy of a man who has used not just tired cliches but what I think has to be called “eliminationist” rhetoric, as defined by Daniel Goldhagen. Take this:
“[T]he homosexual movement is a cancer attacking vital organs of faith, family & military – repositories of traditional values.”
Or this:
“The ‘homosexual religion’ is the most virulent anti-Christian bigotry & hatred I’ve ever seen.”
Now look at the actual definition of “eliminationist” rhetoric:
Eliminationism is the belief that one’s political opponents are “a cancer on the body politic that must be excised — either by separation from the public at large, through censorship or by outright extermination — in order to protect the purity of the nation.
I’m a free speech absolutist. But when we find hate terms surging on Twitter, eliminationist anti-gay rhetoric from major candidates, and a rise in attacks on gay men in neighborhoods associated with them, we should take notice. There is a range of tweeted sentiments here – from innocuous to unthinking (the NoHomophobes website has a smart slogan: “Homophobic language isn’t always meant to be hurtful, but how often do we use it without thinking?”). But when they are legitimized by rhetoric that seeks to speak of gays the way Afrikaners spoke of Africans, and extremist Sunnis speak of Shiites, we have a problem. I urge readers to check out the site and tell me what they hear and read, and what they make of it. It can get complex and I have two confirmation biases: I’m gay and am attached to a non-victimology temperament in identity politics.
But one thing I do know in this atmosphere: The GOP is dipping into some of the foulest waters here. I just hope they aren’t legitimizing a wave of hatred.

