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Allie Brosh, author of the brilliant web-comic Hyperbole and a Half, has published her first book. In an interview, Brosh discusses her approach to comedy:

Stand-up was originally the thing that I wanted to do. I love stand-up, I watch a lot of it, I’m just very, very into stand-up. It’s always been a dream of mine to do that. I haven’t figured out how to do it in a way that I feel comfortable with. I almost think my writing and drawing is a result of my attempts to – subconscious attempts, of course – to bring the look or the feel of stand-up to this inanimate space. So there is more of facial expressions in drawings, so there is more of that sense of watching someone’s facial expressions and body language while you’re listening to them tell you jokes.

Linda Holmes applauds Brosh for writing so candidly about her ongoing battles with depression:

First-person cultural narratives about major battles are often written through the distorting haze of a long memory — that’s what David Carr was trying to counter when he investigated his own past for his memoir Night Of The Gun. But there’s no substitute, really, for the necessary honesty that comes with currency. Allie Brosh is Allie Brosh right now. You can wish her well, but she’ll tell you she’s not sure how it’s going. That’s part of why people with depression believe her. It’s part of why they trust her so much. She told The Telegraph about depression: “It’s sort of like a thing that is maybe a tunnel, but also maybe a giant tube that just keeps going in a circle. And you can’t tell which one it is while you’re in it. There might be light, but there might just be more tube.”

If you want to know how hard it is, she’s telling you that’s how hard it is. Not was, is. And as uncomfortable as that might be, it’s a perspective worth offering.

In another interview, Brosh reflects on the response she got to her posts on depression:

I got great feedback. It’s strange. People said they identified with it and related to it, and it helped them feel less alone. Depression can be an extremely isolating experience. But after I posted it and people said, “Hey, I related to this,” it did the same thing for me. [Depression] was isolating for me, but to have people saying they went through something similar was reassuring to me too… It was liberating to be able to take this thing, the worst thing that had ever happened to me, and really look at it. And look at all the absurdities of it. It just felt so freeing to really own it.

The above cartoon comes from an excerpt from her book. Previous Dish on Brosh here, here, and here.

Coming In Colors

A recent study investigated the connection between sexual feelings and synesthesia, a condition in which the perception of one sensory experience (e.g. hearing) simultaneously triggers another sensory perception (e.g. color). What the study found:

The sexual synaesthetes described different perceptual sensations for different stages of sexual activity from arousal to climax. Initial fantasy and desire triggered the colour orange for one woman. As excitement built for another participant, this went together with colours of increasing intensity. With excitement plateauing, one person described fog transformed into a wall. Orgasm was then described as the wall bursting, “ringlike structures … in bluish-violet tones.” The final so-called resolution phase was accompanied for another participant with pink and yellow. …

The survey results showed that the sexual synaesthetes scored higher than control participants for sexual desire and for altered states of consciousness during sex, including “oceanic boundlessness” (feelings of derealisation and ecstasy) and “visionary restructuaralisation” (hallucinations). Surprisingly perhaps, the synaesthetes also reported less sexual satisfaction than the controls. Their interview answers suggested this is because their synaesthetic experiences enrich their own sexual sensations but leave them feeling disconnected from their partner. It’s all very well if sex triggers your own personal light show, but if you can’t share it, well … it must be kind of isolating.

A Religion Without A God

Joelle Redstrom defends Unitarianism against claims that its doctrinal ambiguity makes it “religiously empty”:

The original movement began in Poland back in the mid-1500s when a member of the Minor Reformed Church challenged the Trinity doctrine. Those who agreed with him were given the ultimatum to convert to Roman Catholicism or leave. Most of them went to Transylvania, which is where they first used the name “Unitarian” to describe themselves. Unitarianism came to the U.S. in the 1780s; Boston’s King’s Chapel was its first church. Many Unitarians, including the ones who attended church with my family and me, refer to themselves as Universalists. The term originally meant universal salvation, opposing the idea that God would punish or not save anyone. …

The lack of God in Unitarianism was its saving grace for me. Sermons involve spirituality, relationships, nature, communication, activism, politics, morality, and other non-deific subjects. But to others, the cognitive dissonance of a religion with no God is just too much. … While Unitarians often avoid categorizations, designations, and congregations, it’s not because we’re cagey—it’s because we value space.

Is Good Writing Good Enough?

The Library of America recently published John Updike’s Collected Stories in two volumes. In a review, James Santel considers “the larger problem of John Updike: he was incapable of writing badly, but was he capable of writing, for lack of a better word, importantly?”

Having read nearly 200 of Updike’s stories in rapid succession, I’m more sympathetic to the critics’ point of view than I had been. While not willing to go as far as [Jonathan] Franzen, who argues that Updike was “wasting” his “tremendous, Nabokov-level talent,” I was surprised by how many of Updike’s stories impressed me while I read them, and how few left an impression.

One can open the Collected Stories to almost any page and find a surprising metaphor, a lovely description, or a wry morsel of irony without remembering much of anything about story that contains it. The stories that I’d already read and admired, the ones widely regarded as Updike’s best — “Pigeon Feathers,” “A Sense of Shelter,” “In Football Season,” “The Persistence of Desire,” “The Happiest I’ve Been,” and, of course, “A&P,” for decades a stalwart of high school curricula — now strike me as a largely comprehensive list, in little need of emendation in light of Updike’s larger corpus.

The curious paradox of Updike is that he made art into a craft, but only rarely did he transcend craft to achieve art. In a sense, then, the answer to [critic James] Wood’s question [“of whether beauty is enough”] is that beauty is not enough, at least not the beauty of finely tuned prose and vivid images that was Updike’s specialty. Art requires the wedding of aesthetics and morals, and the case might be made that the morals are more important; few people would call Dostoyevsky a beautiful writer, but even fewer would contest that he was a great artist.

Out And About

Rachel Cooke praises Out There, Stephen Fry’s two-part BBC documentary about gay life across the globe. She writes that “the films were moving, absorbing and often blackly funny, and all praise to Fry, who managed to stay calm during several encounters that would have left me punching the walls”:

Fry’s second film (16 October, 9pm) ventured into more upsetting territory: in Brazil, a gay person is murdered every 36 hours; in Russia, it is illegal to “promote” homosexuality, a law that has far-reaching and monstrous consequences for the parents and children of gay people (who are “promoting” homosexuality by being alive); in India, the hijras (men who, broadly speaking, identify as women) are forced to live on the outer margins of society. Fry proved a kind and thorough reporter on these matters – though I wish he had not cried so often, which I found self-indulgent. …

[He also traveled] to the US, the home of “reparative therapy”, which seeks to “cure” gay men of their urges.

In Los Angeles, Fry met Joseph Nicolosi, the psychologist who is one of the technique’s leading lights and who believes that homosexuality is the result of childhood trauma. For a while, they batted the arguments (I use the word loosely when it comes to Nicolosi) back and forth. It was all a bit desultory, and I was worried; Fry seemed to be losing heart. But then a coy look moved over his face. Taking in Nicolosi’s tanned visage, carefully trimmed beard and surprisingly dark hair, he told the good clinician that his appearance was distinctly metrosexual: he could very easily pass for a gay man. Nicolosi, silent now, looked stunned; his mouth actually fell open a little. Goal!

I’m joking around, but in fact Nicolosi’s “therapies” are at best cruel and at worst dangerous.

Watch for yourself:

Change We Can Believe In

Sides parses recent research indicating that the Obama administration is making young people less racist:

The distinctiveness of the Obama generation was most evident when asked questions designed to get at subtler forms of prejudice — such as how much individuals think racial inequality is due to the failings of African Americans. Thus the Obama generation was less likely than other generations to agree with statements like “It’s really a matter of some people not trying hard enough; if blacks would only try harder they could be just as well off as whites.”  When asked questions designed to measure overt prejudice — such as approval of interracial marriage — the Obama generation was certainly unlikely to express such attitudes, but not necessarily more so than at least some earlier generations.

To be sure, it is difficult to prove that Obama’s ascendance caused these generational differences in racial attitudes.  But [political scientists Tatishe Nteta and Jill] Greenlee’s findings dovetail with other research that documented a decline in racial prejudice during the 2008 presidential campaign — suggesting that Obama’s rise may really affect how people perceive African Americans.  It is too soon to know whether any generational changes will stick, or what will be true for future generations.  But at this moment, the available evidence suggests, as Nteta and Greenlee put it, “a change is gonna come.”

The Placebo Effect Has Its Place, Ctd

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Readers respond to a recent post:

One thing that’s often overlooked when talking about the placebo effect is that placebos can result in physical and measurable changes. In Parkinson’s, placebo doesn’t just affect the mind; it can affect the brain itself by increasing the release of dopamine, which can lead to the improvement of motor symptoms. I work in the Parkinson’s community and there is a strong interest among people living with the disease to harness placebo as a treatment in and of itself.

Of course that comes with significant ethical issues – the purposeful deception of patients as standard care is not an easy idea to swallow. However, there is perhaps one easy way around this quandary: tell patients they’re on a placebo. A study on irritable bowel syndrome published a few years ago found an improvement in symptoms when they did just that.

Another reader:

I think that Aidan O’Donnell has a skewed perspective on the placebo effect.

Rather than being “the added satisfaction patients derive from a treatment, over and above its actual benefits,” the placebo effect is in fact the baseline benefit against which the efficacy of medical treatments are measured. It does not refer to just a “feeling” of being better. It is a measure of actually being better in the same way as that achieved via medical treatment. In other words, our bodies are capable of some degree of healing without medical intervention, and our physiological processes are affected by our psychological state.

Another:

What Dr. O’Donnell seems to be missing is the fact that what people are looking for would be unethical for doctors to provide. People aren’t just looking to feel better; modern medicine does a pretty good job of managing pain. If all people wanted was more human contact and a small boost to overall well being and happiness, they could turn to a massage or some other spa treatment. What people want is an answer to their problems. They want to someone to tell them that it will be alright and that they can be fixed, and that the fix won’t be difficult or cause them pain. And so they turn to chiropractors and acupuncturists and homeopathic doctors. Because these people will tell them that they can make it better, even when they can’t (and they never can). Their success cases depend on the human body’s own recovery and the placebo effect. Their costs are small compared to real medical care, and they do no lasting harm, and you feel better when they are done. It’s easy to get sucked in.

Real medical doctors need to tell their patients the truth, that many times things look bad, and recovery may be long and painful. That isn’t to say that they don’t make mistakes, and that there are no improvements to be made. But it’s uncertainty that people are paying to get rid of, even if it’s a pleasant lie that they are buying.

The Past Wasn’t More Innocent, You Were

Waldman axes nostalgia:

I’m not the first person to say this … but when you’re a child the world is simple and innocent. Your parents take care of feeding and clothing and housing you, and if you’re lucky the biggest problem you have is what you’re going to get for your birthday. But your world only looked like the the world because children are naive. That’s part of what makes childhood wonderful, but once you grow up you should come to an understanding of what it was and what it wasn’t. You can use your memory of the emotions that characterized your childhood to create good art, or crappy art (although I haven’t seen the show, from the reviews I gather The Goldbergs is the latter).

That isn’t to say cultures don’t change, and American culture changes faster than most. But any time you’re tempted to say something like “The world was a more innocent place when I was a kid,” try to remember that that’s kind of like believing as an adult that your dog really did go to live on a farm upstate.

Update from a reader:

The Daily Show absolutely checkmated this idea a few years ago.

The Best Of The Dish Today

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First up: some late night links. Ezra uses a triangle to explain the debate over the ACA. And Benen gets some great quotes from Republicans when Medicare D was underwater in its first few months. To wit:

Rep. Kevin Brady (R-Texas): “I think it needs to be understood that in a major reform, an improvement of a program like this, there are bound to be glitches.”

Rep. Tom Price (R-Ga.): “Kinks” in Part D got “worked out.”

Rep. Sam Johnson (R-Texas) to CMS official: “You guys have done a super job.”

Fmr. Rep. Nancy Johnson (R-Conn.): “This is a major change in the Medicare program and it is not surprising that there have been implementation pitfalls along the way.”

Heh. But back to today. Dude, we blogged a lot about conservatism – its deepening class divide; Lowry and Ponnuru’s gentle attempt at channeling Tea Party rage; and Thatcher’s unpleasant side. I wrote a post on what the ideas of my mentor, Michael Oakeshott, could contribute to the current travails of the GOP.

I remained unfazed by the Saudis’ fuming over a potential transactional relationship between Washington and Tehran; and made the case for Obama finally getting to grips with the out-of-control NSA. As for the president’s foolishly broad statement that “if you like your plan, you can keep it,” I sadly inferred that the president was either lying or willfully uninformed. I keep remembering Obama’s own description of his core weakness: deep laziness. Is that what’s behind his going on auto-pilot for the NSA and the ACA? Are we seeing in policy terms the results of the phoned-in failure of his first presidential debate last year?

Kids with tablets; kids with cannabis; a face of pellucid underwater stillness.

The most popular post of the day was still this (a surprise to me); and the second was this post naming the man who deserves to be fired for the Obamacare website fiasco.

The map seen above charts the Dish’s popularity around the world for as long as WordPress VIP has been watching. Only two countries that I can see have had no Dish readers. The six most popular Dish-hubs, after the US, are, in descending order, Canada, the UK, Australia, Germany, Ireland and France. But we’ve only had one page-view from Tuvalu.

See you later this evening on AC360 Later and in the morning, when, with any luck, this nasty cold I’ve gotten will have abated a little.

Your Biological Clock Has No Snooze Button

Before you set your alarm tonight, read Casey N. Cep on the perils of hitting snooze:

Since 1956, we have been confusing snooze for sleep, sacrificing our waking life nine minutes at a time. Not only do we delay the start of our days, but we compromise the very sleep we are trying to steal. The healthy, continuous sleep cycles we need are thoroughly disrupted by the snooze. When we hear the first sound of the alarm, our bodies release adrenaline and cortisol, hormones that wake us, interrupting our natural sleep cycle to make us alert.

Surrendering to the temptation of the snooze erases that hormonal surge: our bodies try to reenter the deeper periods of sleep. Only those restorative levels of sleep take a lot longer than nine minutes to enter, so every snooze confuses our bodies even more. We think three or four snoozes are the equivalent of an extra 30 or 40 minutes of rest, but the patchy, interrupted sleep of snooze is worse than no sleep at all. Instead of the natural sleeping then waking, the snooze drags us into unhealthy, unsatisfying fits of trying to sleep and trying to rise, but failing to do either.