The View From Your Window Contest: Winner #197

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A reader thinks he recognizes an important landmark in this week’s photo:

It’s the Oh Shit Bridge!

Rather, the bridge in the far background, mostly hidden behind the similar-looking one, is the Naval Academy Bridge across the Severn that crosses from the Naval Academy and the town of Annapolis towards the Bay Bridge and the Eastern Shore. When you’re coming back from leave, the Academy comes into full view when you start crossing the bridge, hence its name among midshipmen, as in, “Oh shit, I’m almost back at the Naval Academy!” This photo has been taken further up the Severn, looking out towards the Chesapeake.

Another:

Bridge geek here. Older steel bascule bridge on the far left, AASHTO-type girders front and center on both the harbor bridge and the channel elevated bridge. Other than that I have no idea, so I am going to guess Pensacola, FL, since I am about 80% sure of this: it’s the South, we are looking west, and it’s not the Keys.

Another reader:

This sure looks like it could be the bridge from San Diego to Coronado. I’ve only been there once, actually a year ago this week, to stroll about the famous Hotel del Coronado with a dear friend, a woman I hadn’t seen in 52 years. It was great.

Another heads inland:

This is my first time submitting. This looks to be the boat dock in Decatur, Alabama located on the Tennessee River.  The bridge appears to be one I have crossed many times on my way to Interstate 65 via Decatur.

Or is it way up north?

The boats are parked at the Canarsie Pier in Brooklyn, NY, with the Belt Parkway in the background. If not, it sure looks a lot like it.

Another heads down Interstate 95 for a look at the boating scene:

The long, low bridge and types of boats shown here take my thoughts to southern Florida, perhaps south of Miami, or somewhere in the Keys. Sailboats, which can be demanding to operate even in the lightest weather conditions, are heavily outnumbered here by motor yachts. Those vessels bespeak an older population of owners: cautious, conservative, and comfortable, who may never even leave the harbor, but who enjoy the ambience of the marina and, from time to time, perhaps invite the boat owner on the other side of the dock to come have a tall one and shoot the breeze for a while. The chairs up on the main dock are very inviting.

Another:

This picture just reeks of the Southeastern US, but I can’t find any set of bridges that matches the configuration seen in the photo. Biloxi has plenty of casino hotel rooms to provide views of this sort, so that is my guess. I can’t wait to see what people came up with for tracking down boat registries.

Or sales listings, which we’ll get to. This reader gets the right state:

Looks like Morehead City, North Carolina, and in particular, a view from the waterfront Marriot.  Spent a weekend there last summer and traveled back in time – just a quaint, historic little piece of North Carolina.

Another reader, like the majority of our contestants this week, identifies the correct town and hotel:

This one came fairly quickly to me, as it definitely looked like a coastal area in the Carolinas.  I ruled out any areas in the Lowcountry region of South Carolina due to a lack of palmetto trees or marsh, so North Carolina came to mind.  The bridges help it determine that it’s New Bern, as there are several crossings of the Trent and Neuse Rivers, which meet at the point where historic New Bern was founded.  A beautiful and historic town!

The view is one towards the southeast and appears to be from the fourth floor of the DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel that was built in bicentennial park, overlooking a second story pool and the docks, which are angled acutely to the shore.

This is my first time entering into the event!

A local is also ecstatic:

Oh. My. God.  I cannot begin to tell you how excited I was to see this week’s VFYW.  It’s right in my home town of New Bern! I’m so giddy I can barely type this email.  I’ve never gotten closer than the country of a contest in the past, so imagine my surprise when I scrolled down your site and thought – holy shit, that’s where I live!  Somehow, I’ll find a way to lose this contest, I just know it.  Just know that someone in New Bern, North Carolina loves Andrew Sullivan (& Co.) and is a founding (and renewing) member and is more excited than he should be that he knows this week’s answer.

Well, now for some details.  This shot is out of the rear window of the main building of the Doubletree Inn, formerly the Hilton, formerly the Sheraton, overlooking the now privately-owned Marina.  Next door are some recently completed condos, making the hotel complex effectively three separate buildings.  Not bad for a town of about 30,000.  In the back, you can see the recently renovated cantilever bridge that caused a lot of controversy down here when it was built (long story).  The deck at the bottom left hosts live music events in the summer.

New Bern itself is the colonial capital of North Carolina, the sister city of Bern, Switzerland, and bearFlagcelebrated its 300th anniversary in 2010.  Out mascot is the bear. Go ahead and Google our former mayor Lee Bettis if you want some good laughs. The Marina sits at the confluence of the Trent and Neuse Rivers and today it is absolutely gorgeous here.  Ah, New Bern.  I can’t believe it!  I am nearly certain someone who doesn’t live here will also know the answer, will send you pictures of the window from which the picture was taken, complete with graphs and charts.  But I bet nobody else will tell you that they’ve had drinks at the table with the blue and white umbrella (I have), or that the last deck party at the hotel that they attended was two weeks before the birth of their first child (my wife got some disapproving looks that night).  So if I lose because someone gets more specific about the picture, so be it.  I’ll have a story to tell my kids.

By the way, New Bern got a shout-out in last night’s “Better Know A Disctrict”; evidently the town was featured in The Notebook. Another reader:

At first glance, I thought of Tampa Bay, but then switched to New Bern, NC. For such a tiny town, New Bern has an impressive array of bridges. The airport is small – the person who checks you in runs round the back and loads your bags, then checks your boarding pass at the gate. It’s also near the awesomely (and aptly) named Dismal Swamp. If it’s New Bern, the pic would probably have to be from the Bridge Point hotel, as I can’t think of another one directly on the water. That’s the extent of the research/trolling through my memory I’m willing to do given that it’s probably actually somewhere in China, and someone else will have hacked a NASA satellite to take a picture of the person currently occupying the correct room shaving in the bathroom mirror.

It was the structure at the base of the closest bridge that did it for me; it looks familiar:

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Many readers focused on the boats for clues:

My immediate gut reaction was Coronado, CA, but a quick check of Google Maps and Street View indicated that the bridge was wrong. My next thought was somewhere along the Florida keys; but it only took about 5 minutes of scrolling along US 1 in Google Earth to recall that the majority of the bridges in the keys were flat and not arched. I figured I best step back and really take in the clues.

My first thought was to check boat registrations on the two names that are easily visible – Carpe Diem and High Five, but there are just too many possibilities and it didn’t look like I could easily sort it out that way. The next step was to search on Neptune. That one boat in the foreground has several banners on it and then the Carpe Diem named boat next to it has one so it looked like it was a tour boat service of some sort.

I messed around with a couple of Google searches using Neptune boat tours and kept coming up with wine tours in San Fran. When I was searching for boat registrations for High Five, I noticed a bunch in the Virginia area and that got me thinking about the Chesapeake Bay. When I searched on “neptune boat chesapeake” I immediately go a hit on that logo and noticed the Trident shaped E matched the one in the photo – Bingo!

From there it was a quick search of the Neptune Yacht sales website to see that they’re in New Bern, NC. Just typing in New Bern, NC into Google Earth and you can immediately see the arched/curved bridge and the perpendicular one. X marks the target zone (and the marina):

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Zooming in on the marina you can pretty quickly spot the pool and fence that shows up in the photo. Ximage-12 marks the fence and pool chairs that belong to the Double Tree/Hilton. The room clearly looks out over the pool, facing South East – the camera view is just slightly beyond the pool. The circle is the room, the line is the view, the X are the pool chairs. In the frame of the photo, you are just to the right of the fence line that returns towards the hotel so I think it’s that 5th window from the end. The question is which floor…

The view is relatively high up, but there are no signs of the balcony, which is only on the top/5th floor. My bet is therefore the window on the 4th floor, circled below:

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Another has more on the boat:

Using the marina and landmarks in the distance, I’m guessing that the picture was taken from the seventh room from southwest corner of the south tower. According to a reviewer in Trip Advisor, the fifth floor is the only floor with walkout balconies, so this along with the angle leads me to believe the room was on the third floor.

As an aside for the nautically interested, the sailboat “Carpe Diem” in the middle of the marina, is a well maintained 1995 Beneteau Oceanis 400 for sale and recently reduced to $98,900:

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If anyone’s interested in buying the boat, several admiring readers passed along the link. Another:

I know people usually name the room number, but I have NO idea how they do that. So … let’s go with room 302, which might instead be numbered 319, 332, or 339, depending on how rooms are numbered on the floor plan. Or maybe 303/318/333/338???

You’ve won my dad’s interest in this contest. So we’ll be doing these together now, and since he did the legwork on the city, he’ll get the book if we win this time.

You two were close! Many readers guessed correctly this week, but nobody picked the right room number, not even Chini. Here is a composite of many of the (incorrect) window choices this week:

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Of the few people who guessed the correct window, the following reader had the most previous correct guesses without a win, so he gets the prize this week:

First thing that popped into my head this week was “Tampa Bay.” A quick map check showed that was not right, but it seemed something along the intra-coastal waterway or maybe up the east coast of the US. Once I figured out the configuration of the bridges – with three distinct spans at the right side of the picture – I spent some time panning around maps looking for them. No luck.

neptuneNext I decided to search on the names I could see on the boats. Do you know how many different boat-related enterprises use the word “Neptune”? Do you know how many people name their boats “Carpe Diem”? Finally I stumbled across the logo of Neptune Yacht Sales and Service of New Bern, NC, which looked like a match.

And there it was, the New Bern DoubleTree, overlooking the marina and the bridges. I found a picture from 2005 with a similar scene; there is a drawbridge span that has clearly been replaced since then. Going to Street View and looking back from the structure at the north end of the bridge – probably a drawbridge control room – gave me a line to the room. Street View also had a picture taken at the back of the hotel which shows the same two Neptune boats and the back of the hotel. Looking at the angle I guessed it was the third floor, and based on the overhead I figured fourth window over from the right.

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I got last week’s hotel right but miscounted the floors, missing the correct window by one. Hoping I am a little more accurate this time.

Accurate enough for a big win. From the original submitter:

This picture was taken on February 17, 2014, from the window of my hotel room (#307) at the Hilton Doubletree Hotel in New Bern, North Carolina. I believe it was the 4th window from the center of the hotel (the hinge or bend), on the 3rd floor, behind the top of the tree on the left. A sleuth can discern that the scene is in New Bern by the several banners advertising Neptune Yacht Sales, a business located in New Bern.

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A Staggering Death Sentence

https://twitter.com/jonleeanderson/status/448176865929613312

The numbers:

An Egyptian judge on March 24 sentenced 529 Muslim Brotherhood supporters (147 in custody, the rest at large) to death for the killing of one police officer—in the largest capital punishment conviction in modern Egypt. Though the sentences can still be appealed, they offer a stark illustration of the depths to which Egypt’s political conflict has plunged.

Magdi Abdelhadi calls the decision “preposterously self-defeating”:

[M]ost observers will conclude that the verdict is political, designed to send a message to the Brotherhood and its backers abroad – in Cairo this usually means Turkey and Qatar, which have made no secret of their unwavering support for the Brotherhood– that the Egyptian state is still in no mood to compromise with the Islamists: surrender or annihilation.

But coming down with a sledgehammer on anything that moves makes the government look more like a raging bull than a confident operator playing by the rules. It also adds to perceptions of the Brotherhood in the outside world as clear victims, despite the fact that government action against the Islamists still enjoys broad support in Egypt itself.

McBain was repulsed by the reaction within Egypt:

So is the judge Saeed Elgazar acting on a personal grudge against Morsi’s Islamist party, or is he coming under political pressure? This isn’t clear, but what is more evident, and deeply disturbing is that several Egyptian news channels welcomed the verdict. One TV presenter argued yesterday that: “The state cannot meet violence with violence? What should it meet it with? A wedding procession? Ball gowns?”

Lucia Ardovini and Simon Mabon add historical context:

What must be remembered is that what is happening in Egypt is not new but can be traced back to several previous periods in recent history. This cycle of Islamist engagement within politics followed by violent repression also occurred under Nasser, Sadat and Mubarak. What is clear is that the Muslim Brotherhood faces the most severe challenge to its long-term stability since the time of Nasser.

Anna Newby believes that Egypt won’t actually kill all the convicted Muslim Brotherhood members:

The convicted group can appeal the ruling, and legal experts say the case is likely to be overturned or rejected by the Grand Mufti, the country’s official authority for issuing religious edicts, who reviews all capital punishment sentences. The court determined that a final verdict would be issued on April 28. In any case, the idea that Egypt would actually execute the 529 people it sentenced to death today is far-fetched. A state execution on that scale would be unprecedented, and as Karim Medhat Ennarah of the Egyptian Initiative for Personal Rights points out, it would be impossible to prove that each of the 500 people had a significant part in the killing of a single police officer. He adds: “Clearly this is an attempt to intimidate and terrorize the opposition, and specifically the Islamist opposition.”

Juan Cole weighs in:

Among Middle Eastern countries, the most execution happy is Iran, with over 300 a year. With just one trial, Egypt has made itself more Draconian than Iran.

And it appears to be just the beginning:

Update from a reader:

This seems minor, but it strikes me as odd: It seems that the Guardian and McBain both called the judge who handed down the sentence “Saeed Elgazar” (or in the case of some Guardian articles, “Saeed Youssef Elgazar”). The problem: “Saeed Elgazar” in Arabic literally translates to “Happy the Butcher.” I thought this was awfully poetic, so I searched for the name in Arabic sources. All I could find as far as clear references to him were in Brotherhood-related sources; the relatively reputable Almasry Alyoum, for its part, gave his name as simply “Saeed Youssef” in its original article on the sentencing (article is in Arabic). I suspect we may have a bit of Brotherhood spin leaking out. If I am wrong and that is his name, of course, it is delightfully if darkly poetic.

Yglesias Award Nominee

“Changing the employee conduct policy to allow someone in a same-sex marriage who is a professed believer in Jesus Christ to work for us makes our policy more consistent with our practice on other divisive issues. It also allows us to treat all of our employees the same way: abstinence outside of marriage, and fidelity within marriage,” – Richard Stearns, president of World Vision U.S., one of the largest evangelical aid organizations in the world, in Christianity Today, evangelicalism’s flagship publication.

If You Don’t Like Your Coverage, You Can Upgrade It

Underinsured

Cohn points to a new report (pdf) by the Commonwealth Fund indicating that Obamacare will help the underinsured:

According to the report, which became public early Tuesday morning, some 32 million non-elderly Americans were in households that spent a “high share of income on medical care” during 2012. That’s a little more than one in ten non-elderly Americans. The majority, though by no means all, are poor or near-poor. …

“The Affordable Care Act will significantly reduce underinsurance since it sets a national floor for benefits, requires that plans cover a minimum level of costs, bans pre-existing condition exclusions as well as lifetime and annual benefit limits, and increases cost-sharing protections for people with low and moderate incomes,” says Sara Collins, who is the Fund’s vice president for Health Care Coverage and Access and a co-author of the paper. “The problem of underinsurance is most pronounced among low and moderate income families and the provisions of the law are well-targeted at significantly improving coverage for people who have in the past spent large shares of their income on health care.”

Meanwhile, Khazan emphasizes that the uninsured are still massively confused about Obamacare:

Perversely, insured people and richer people had more knowledge about the ACA, and about how health insurance works in general, than did the uninsured. Knowledge about both the law and concepts such as premiums and deductibles increased with income. People who would qualify for the Obamacare subsidies were only able to answer an average of four of 11 questions about the law. Women were more ignorant than men were about healthcare reform, even though they arguably stand to benefit more.

A GOP Senate Is Getting More Likely, Ctd

Nate Silver responds to the DSCC’s criticism:

Our forecasts could be wrong in November. In fact, they probably will be wrong — it’s unlikely that Republicans will win exactly six seats. But we think it’s equally likely that our forecast will be biased in either direction. If Democrats retain just one more seat, they’ll hold the Senate. Or Republican gains could grow to seven seats, or quite a bit more.

And here’s the least surprising news: Political campaigns are hypocritical. At the same time the DSCC is criticizing our forecasts publicly, it’s sending out email pitches that cite Nate Silver’s “shocking, scary” forecasts to compel Democrats into donating.

You’d do well to shut out the noise the next time the DSCC writes a polling memo.

Weigel believes that “the Silver backlash was inevitable”:

Silver’s cachet on the left, which was high after 2008, became incomparable after 2012. That was the year FiveThirtyEight became a digital security blanket for liberals, a site they could refresh and refresh and refresh some more when their other news sources warned them that Mitt Romney might actually win.

Cillizza offers a few reasons why Democrats are so worried about Nate Silver’s latest predictions:

Know who REALLY listens to what Nate says? Major Democratic donors. They follow his projections extremely closely and, if he says the Senate majority won’t be held, they take it as the gospel truth. That, of course, is a major problem for the DSCC and other Democrats focused on keeping control of the Senate — particularly given that major outside conservative groups led by Americans for Prosperity are already spending heavily on ads bashing vulnerable Democratic incumbents. If the major donor community concludes that spending on the Senate isn’t a worthy investment, [Guy] Cecil and his Democratic colleagues know that their chances of holding the majority get very, very slim. Nate’s predictions move money in Democratic circles. Cecil knows that. Hence the memo.

Kilgore tries to stay optimistic:

Comparing 538’s forecast to its most credible rival, the Cook Political Report, is instructive. Cook’s Jennifer Duffy lists Arkansas as a toss-up race; Nate shows a 70/30 probability that Mark Pryor will lose. Similarly Cook shows the two vulnerable Republican seats, Kentucky and Georgia, as toss-ups. Nate gives Democrats a 25% chance of winning Kentucky and a 30% chance of winning Georgia. But his numbers would change rapidly with a few more likely-voter surveys in any of these states showing Democrats running even or ahead; Duffy tends to project races as very close until evidence emerges that they are not so close.

But there’s not a great deal of divergence in the factors used by 538 and Cook—polls, electoral history, money, national trends—and it’s very likely their forecasts will converge as we get closer to November.

Rumsfeld: Obama Worse Than A “Trained Ape”

What’s truly striking and amazing about Dick Cheney and Donald Rumsfeld is their persistent refusal/inability to reflect in any serious way on the immense moral, fiscal, and human costs of their failed wars. They are post-modern creatures – Rumsfeld never tackled an insurgency, he just “redefined” the word, just as he re-named torture – and you see this most graphically in Errol Morris’s small masterpiece, The Unknown Known. And so the very concept of personal accountability and responsibility is utterly absent. There was one flash of it: when Rumsfeld offered his resignation after the torture program’s reach and migration was revealed in the photos from Abu Ghraib. But even then, Rumsfeld was resigning because of the exposure – not because of the war crimes which he directly authorized.

And so it is fitting, perhaps, that after the massive misjudgment of the Iraq invasion and occupation, and after neglect in Afghanistan made that country even less safe from the Taliban, that Rumsfeld has the gall to attack the sitting president in a clear case of dealing with a foreign leader. Here is Rumsfeld, unable (unlike McNamara) to find a conscience within his massive, brittle ego, lashing out at the president yet again:

This administration, the White House and the State Department, have failed to get a status of forces agreement. A trained ape could get a status of forces agreement. It does not take a genius.

Here is the man who derided half of Europe and told the Brits they weren’t even needed on the eve of warfare talking about diplomacy:

United States diplomacy has been so bad, so embarrassingly bad, that I’m not the least bit surprised that he felt cornered and is feeling he has to defend himself in some way or he’s not president of that country. We have so mismanaged that relationship … I personally sympathize with him to some extent. Nobody likes to hear a foreign leader side with Putin on the Crimea the way he has. But I really think it’s understandable, given the terrible, terrible diplomacy that the United States has conducted with Afghanistan over the last several years.

So having described the first black president as inferior to a trained monkey, he actually sides with a current adversary of this country against his own commander-in-chief. There was a time when I would have been shocked by this. But Rumsfeld and Cheney can permanently reduce one’s ability to feel shock at anything.

A reader adds:

Rumsfeld fails to give his audience any hint of the fact that this is a problem that he made. America used to have no problem concluding SOFAs with its allies. Those agreements addressed Americans in uniform and provided that owing to the need for military discipline and control, the soldiers, sailors and airmen (and women) would be subject to military justice rather than the criminal justice system of the host government. However, under Rumsfeld, the footprint of the American military changed dramatically, and contractors came to constitute a majority of the force the US deployed. At the same time, American military and civilian justice failed utterly to deal with the contractors (think of the Blackwater contractors who massacred 14 Iraqis and wounded 20 more at Nissour Square in Baghdad in September 2008, for instance). These circumstances led both the Iraqis and the Afghans to refuse to sign a SOFA in the form the US sought, because the US’s terrible record (Rumsfeld’s record) of non enforcement. Thus, Rumsfeld created the problem and has made it increasingly difficult for the US to get these agreements.

The key problems, Iraq and Afghanistan, were problems under Bush as well as Obama, and were handled by the same professional team at the Pentagon. They really have next to nothing to do with the White House, under either Bush or Obama. But they have an awful lot to do with Rumsfeld and his scandalous mismanagement of the Pentagon.

Why Hasn’t Ukraine’s Revolution Spread?

Farid Guliyev and Nozima Akhrarkhodjaeva observe that “the Euromaidan protests did not spark similar political activism in other post-Soviet semi-autocratic regimes.” Among the reasons why:

Over the years, the ruling regimes in Azerbaijan, Belarus and Russia adjusted their repression strategies and adopted new ones to squash any signs of a color revolution. All three regimes were “late risers” during the color revolution wave. As Mark Beissinger shows, state elites in “later risers” have an advantage over those in “earlier risers” in that they know about actions and strategies used by protesters in the initial wave and therefore can adapt.

Institutional screws were tightened as post-Soviet autocrats took preemptive measures. Russia played a leading role in spreading various diffusion-proofing strategies. Examples include Russia’s restrictive legislation on non-governmental organizations in 2006 and the 2012 law requiring foreign-funded NGOs to register as “foreign agents”. Such measures foreclosed the success of anti-Kremlin mass rallies on the Bolotnaya Square in Moscow. And as Julia Ioffe rightly noted, “much of the stringency and verticality of the Russian political system is a direct result of [reaction to] Ukraine’s Orange Revolution.”

Ask Shane Bauer Anything: Iran’s Other Inmates

In the latest video from Shane, he discusses some of the prisoners, including a member of al-Qaeda, he came to know while behind bars in Iran’s notorious Evin Prison:

In a followup, he offers his take on the meaning of Rouhani’s election last year:

Shane Bauer is an investigative journalist and photographer who was one of the three American hikers imprisoned in Iran after being captured on the Iraqi border in 2009. He was held for 26 months, four of them in solitary confinement. He subsequently wrote a special report for Mother Jones about solitary confinement in America, and is also currently running a Kickstarter-like campaign to enable him to spend a full year investigating America’s prison system. Shane and his fellow former hostages, Sarah Shourd (now his wife) and Josh Fattal, have co-written the memoir A Sliver of Light based on their experiences. Except here. Shane’s previous videos are here.

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Psychiatry’s State Of Mind

Joseph Pierre tackles claims of over-diagnosis in his profession:

The diagnostic creep of psychiatry becomes more understandable by conceptualising mental illness, like most things in nature, on a continuum. Many forms of psychiatric disorder, such as schizophrenia or severe dementia, are so severe – that is to say, divergent from normality – that whether they represent illness is rarely debated. Other syndromes, such as generalised anxiety disorder, might more closely resemble what seems, to some, like normal worry. And patients might even complain of isolated symptoms such as insomnia or lack of energy that arise in the absence of any fully formed disorder. In this way, a continuous view of mental illness extends into areas that might actually be normal, but still detract from optimal, day-to-day function. …

The truth is that while psychiatric diagnosis is helpful in understanding what ails a patient and formulating a treatment plan, psychiatrists don’t waste a lot of time fretting over whether a patient can be neatly categorised in DSM, or even whether or not that patient truly has a mental disorder at all. A patient comes in with a complaint of suffering, and the clinician tries to relieve that suffering independent of such exacting distinctions. If anything, such details become most important for insurance billing, where clinicians might err on the side of making a diagnosis to obtain reimbursement for a patient who might not otherwise be able to receive care.

Vaughan Bell praises Pierre’s piece as a “surprisingly good snapshot” of the field, but he has reservations:

Probably the most important thing it underlines is that most psychiatrists are less obsessed with diagnosis than people who are are obsessed about the fact that psychiatrists make diagnoses. Most psychiatrists typically don’t think that ‘every diagnosis is a disease’ and recognise the fuzziness of the boundaries – as indeed, do most medical professionals. …

I would also say that the piece reflects mainstream psychiatric thinking by what it leaves out: a sufficient discussion of the psychiatric deprivation of liberty and autonomy – and its emotional impact on individuals. Considering that this is the thing most likely to be experienced as traumatic, it is still greatly under-emphasised in internal debates and it remains conspicuous by its absence.

Bronies And Bullies, Ctd

A reader confides:

I’m a 41-year-old straight male … who likes to get dressed up in ball-gowns. So I can completely sympathize with those boys and men who get bullied and ridiculed for being feminine. I lived years feeling ashamed about it – pretty much since puberty – and it’s directly related to my sexuality. It’s really only been in the last year that I started to put out feelers with really close friends about it, including my wife, and I finally said “fuck it” after Frozen came out and I decided to “Let it Go”.

The response has been great for the most part, and I’m probably the happiest I’ve ever been. In a way, it’s just another step along accepting the “other” that I think the Internet will continue to encourage. First it was race; then it was homosexuality; now we’re starting to get into transgender, cross-dressing, cross-dreaming. None of these aspects of the human condition harm anyone. It’s only the fear of the unknown that causes the problems.

So many of these prejudices are simply because people are in the closet. Heck, in some cases there are conditions that people aren’t even awared exist (like cross-dreaming, which is the condition of becoming aroused by thinking you’re the other sex). The more people are exposed to the spectrum of human sexuality, the better it’ll be.